Kindness is Always in Style for Ruth Porter, Who Gifted English Coal Hole Covers to Coronado Neighbors

Kindness goes a long way to brighten someone’s day, and long-time Coronado resident Ruth Porter was a shining example of this when she gave her neighbors a gift from the heart and her collection of coal hole covers procured in London.

“We bought our home here 45 years ago and everyone has been very friendly,” she comments. Last Christmas, she decided to gift coal hole covers to her neighbors, and each placed them as a decoration in their yard. A connected neighborhood, families share bread and produce, and sometimes have celebratory parties. This unexpected gesture meant the world to the neighbors.

Ruth says she considers their family “corporation gypsies,” having moved numerous times through the years for her husband John’s job at Solar Turbines, which is now owned by Caterpillar. He travelled the world, including across Europe and Africa, and gathered artifacts from all over the globe. When they first came to Coronado, he commuted to work across the bay in his 18-foot sailboat. For five years, they lived in London, where Ruth collected a variety of interesting items. One day, she noticed workers changing the sidewalks and throwing away the coal hole covers, so she snagged five of them and used them through the years as décor in their lovely historic home.

The decorative metal coal hole covers were used in Victorian times and before in London to deliver coal to houses. Ruth points out that each one has a unique design for the sanitation engineers to recognize their customer’s houses. The engineer would simply pull off the cover to pour coal directly into the home’s basement for heat. Vintage ones can still be found in various parts of London.

Ruth shares an interesting fact that Thomas Crapper, who is said to have developed the pull shaft toilet, was a sanitary engineer with a coal route near Westminster Abbey. When her son Todd and daughter Paige were little, she took them to find one of those distinctive coal hole covers and they made a rubbing of its intricate design, which she proudly displays in her bathroom to this day.

Originally from Philadelphia, Ruth met John at Penn State University. She had a career as a civilian working for the Navy in an array of administrative jobs, until she retired as an education specialist. Both she and John were avid golfers and enjoyed hitting the links in Coronado, Borrego Springs, and San Diego.

“I’m not a very good golfer, but I enjoyed playing with my husband and friends,” she laughs. Although she is left handed, she was trained to play field hockey in high school with her right hand, so she was also taught to golf right handed and feels that might have affected her swing. Another collection that she’s accumulated over more than 20 years is a showcase of figurines and tchotchkes depicting women’s golf.

Nowadays Ruth’s hobbies include putting together puzzles, playing the piano, and doing sudoku. She and John enjoy the amazing concerts at the Coronado Library, and have a penchant for jazz. They were also the proud parents of Charlie, a former Cat City Manager, who coincidentally was the perfect fit, with a “C” marking on his back.

We can all use more examples of kindness, as shown by gracious Ruth, to remind us of what a difference a simple gesture can make. As Desmond Tutu promoted, “Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.”

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